How to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera on Your Wedding Day


If you’re already thinking, “We’re so awkward in photos…”
You’re not alone.

Almost every couple I work with says the same thing during their first inquiry or planning call. And honestly? I get it. Unless you’re a professional model, being in front of a camera all day isn’t something most people are used to.

But here’s the good news: Feeling comfortable in your photos isn’t about being “photogenic.” It’s about working with someone who knows how to help you relax, feel natural, and focus on what matters most—each other.


You’re Not Alone (And You’re Not Awkward)

So many of my couples start by telling me how nervous they are about posing, smiling, or knowing what to do with their hands.

But here’s the thing:
You’re not awkward.
You’re just not used to this (yet).

That’s where I come in.

My job isn’t just to take beautiful photos—it’s to create an experience where you feel comfortable, supported, and like yourself.


What I Do to Help You Relax

I’ll never leave you standing there wondering what to do next.

Throughout your day, I’ll gently guide you when needed:

  • I’ll offer natural, easy-to-follow prompts.
  • I’ll help you focus on each other, not the camera.
  • I’ll read the energy of the moment—knowing when to step in with direction and when to quietly step back and let the moment unfold.

Whether it’s helping you laugh during portraits, or blending into the background during your ceremony, I’m always watching for the real, meaningful moments.


Tips for Feeling Comfortable in Your Wedding Photos

Here are a few ways you can help ease any nerves:

  • Consider an Engagement Session:
    It’s a chance for us to work together before the big day and for you to get used to how I photograph.
  • Focus on Your Person:
    Instead of thinking about the camera, focus on your partner. Laugh, talk, move… be together.
  • Trust Me to Guide You:
    I’ll help with natural posing that feels like you—not stiff, not forced, not overly posed.
  • Breathe and Be Present:
    Some of the best photos happen when you’re simply living in the moment.

The Result: Photos That Feel Like You

At the end of the day, your gallery will tell the story of your wedding as it really happened:
Full of joy, emotion, connection… and yes—completely natural.

If you’re worried about how you’ll feel in front of the camera, let’s chat. I’d love to help you feel confident and at ease—because you deserve photos that look and feel like you.

Bride and groom walk hand-in-hand, smiling in front of a stone castle-style venue.